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	<title>Comments on: Why We Don&#8217;t Want to Lead &#8211; Part I</title>
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		<title>By: Susan Mazza</title>
		<link>http://randomactsofleadership.com/2009/08/30/why-we-dont-want-to-lead-i/comment-page-1/#comment-367</link>
		<dc:creator>Susan Mazza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 02:39:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My intention is to reach as many of those potential, positive leaders as possible!

Thank for the honor of being represented on your blog.  I truly appreciate your vote of confidence!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My intention is to reach as many of those potential, positive leaders as possible!</p>
<p>Thank for the honor of being represented on your blog.  I truly appreciate your vote of confidence!</p>
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		<title>By: Joanne Maly</title>
		<link>http://randomactsofleadership.com/2009/08/30/why-we-dont-want-to-lead-i/comment-page-1/#comment-360</link>
		<dc:creator>Joanne Maly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 20:50:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Susan,

Your observation about the teachers in your seminar not wanting to be public leaders - and in fact - almost feeling a need to hide their strengths and innate abilities to be inspiring leaders - seems like an example mirrored in many areas  in our culture. 

I often wonder how many potential, positive leaders are intimidated by &#039;standing out&#039; at an early age - and they - and we - therefore never know the power and exciting results that &#039;could have been.&#039;

I am honored, by the way, to have your Random Acts of Leadership blog listed on my own &#039;Simply Said&#039; blog in the &quot;Blogs I Like&quot; list. I hope that many of my own readers become one of your regular post readers. You have a gift in presenting your message. 

Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Susan,</p>
<p>Your observation about the teachers in your seminar not wanting to be public leaders &#8211; and in fact &#8211; almost feeling a need to hide their strengths and innate abilities to be inspiring leaders &#8211; seems like an example mirrored in many areas  in our culture. </p>
<p>I often wonder how many potential, positive leaders are intimidated by &#8217;standing out&#8217; at an early age &#8211; and they &#8211; and we &#8211; therefore never know the power and exciting results that &#8216;could have been.&#8217;</p>
<p>I am honored, by the way, to have your Random Acts of Leadership blog listed on my own &#8216;Simply Said&#8217; blog in the &#8220;Blogs I Like&#8221; list. I hope that many of my own readers become one of your regular post readers. You have a gift in presenting your message. </p>
<p>Thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: Susan Mazza</title>
		<link>http://randomactsofleadership.com/2009/08/30/why-we-dont-want-to-lead-i/comment-page-1/#comment-334</link>
		<dc:creator>Susan Mazza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2009 14:01:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Henie.  Love your comment that &quot;true leaders are too busy leading in action rather than configuratively in thought.&quot;  Somehow I don&#039;t think Ghandi pondered whether he was a leader or not.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Henie.  Love your comment that &#8220;true leaders are too busy leading in action rather than configuratively in thought.&#8221;  Somehow I don&#8217;t think Ghandi pondered whether he was a leader or not.</p>
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		<title>By: Susan Mazza</title>
		<link>http://randomactsofleadership.com/2009/08/30/why-we-dont-want-to-lead-i/comment-page-1/#comment-333</link>
		<dc:creator>Susan Mazza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2009 13:56:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your comments Walter.  There is no doubt that leadership takes courage.  Yet what is terrifying for one person may be no big deal for another, for example, speaking up at a meeting of 20 people.  

What I am interested in and committed to is supporting people in finding even the small, simple ways they personally can stretch themselves to step up or speak up.  All too often people get paralyzed because they think to lead it has to be some cataclysmic event or action yet I believe real leadership happens in the everyday, sometimes seemingly insignificant, actions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your comments Walter.  There is no doubt that leadership takes courage.  Yet what is terrifying for one person may be no big deal for another, for example, speaking up at a meeting of 20 people.  </p>
<p>What I am interested in and committed to is supporting people in finding even the small, simple ways they personally can stretch themselves to step up or speak up.  All too often people get paralyzed because they think to lead it has to be some cataclysmic event or action yet I believe real leadership happens in the everyday, sometimes seemingly insignificant, actions.</p>
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		<title>By: Susan Mazza</title>
		<link>http://randomactsofleadership.com/2009/08/30/why-we-dont-want-to-lead-i/comment-page-1/#comment-332</link>
		<dc:creator>Susan Mazza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2009 13:50:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you Jann.  I like this idea of &quot;leading yourself&quot;.  You have me thinking about what leading yourself really looks like as in what are some of the specific acts of leadership that one takes when they are leading themselves that could give individuals who aren&#039;t ready to lead a way to go to work on their leadership.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Jann.  I like this idea of &#8220;leading yourself&#8221;.  You have me thinking about what leading yourself really looks like as in what are some of the specific acts of leadership that one takes when they are leading themselves that could give individuals who aren&#8217;t ready to lead a way to go to work on their leadership.</p>
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		<title>By: Susan Mazza</title>
		<link>http://randomactsofleadership.com/2009/08/30/why-we-dont-want-to-lead-i/comment-page-1/#comment-331</link>
		<dc:creator>Susan Mazza</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2009 13:39:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All fabulous points Chuck. 

In response to your  comment that you don&#039;t see how leadership can be construed as a bad thing:  I think that happens mostly when the term leadership is used to refer to people or a person at some senior level in an organization and there is a negative assessment about how they are leading (or not!).  The sentiment that follows can be &quot;if I have to be like &quot;them&quot; to be considered a leader I want no part of it!&quot;  The same people who complain about &quot;leadership&quot;, however, often also say they wish there was some REAL leadership here.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All fabulous points Chuck. </p>
<p>In response to your  comment that you don&#8217;t see how leadership can be construed as a bad thing:  I think that happens mostly when the term leadership is used to refer to people or a person at some senior level in an organization and there is a negative assessment about how they are leading (or not!).  The sentiment that follows can be &#8220;if I have to be like &#8220;them&#8221; to be considered a leader I want no part of it!&#8221;  The same people who complain about &#8220;leadership&#8221;, however, often also say they wish there was some REAL leadership here.</p>
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		<title>By: Wally Bock</title>
		<link>http://randomactsofleadership.com/2009/08/30/why-we-dont-want-to-lead-i/comment-page-1/#comment-330</link>
		<dc:creator>Wally Bock</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2009 12:08:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you don&#039;t have the courage to speak up, you&#039;re not doing leadership, you&#039;re just thinking about it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you don&#8217;t have the courage to speak up, you&#8217;re not doing leadership, you&#8217;re just thinking about it.</p>
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		<title>By: Walter</title>
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		<dc:creator>Walter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2009 06:09:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Leadership is inherent in all of us. However, few can muster the courage to step up and speak his/her mind. Leadership doesn&#039;t command force but rather igniting the belief and sympathy of your followers. 

 Beliefs can also hamper our leadership ability because it tampers our choice. It takes awareness to escape from its fetters. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Leadership is inherent in all of us. However, few can muster the courage to step up and speak his/her mind. Leadership doesn&#8217;t command force but rather igniting the belief and sympathy of your followers. </p>
<p> Beliefs can also hamper our leadership ability because it tampers our choice. It takes awareness to escape from its fetters. <img src='http://randomactsofleadership.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Jann Freed</title>
		<link>http://randomactsofleadership.com/2009/08/30/why-we-dont-want-to-lead-i/comment-page-1/#comment-327</link>
		<dc:creator>Jann Freed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 16:28:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One of the things I stress is that the most important person to lead is YOURSELF.  That drives home the point that everyone needs to at least lead themselves.  The more people apply concepts to themselves, then the more relevant the messages.  We all have a sphere of influence that we can impact in a positive way.  

But I know how many people tend to view power as a negative thing.

Your posts are thought provoking and I am trying to learn from your writing.  Thanks.  Jann</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the things I stress is that the most important person to lead is YOURSELF.  That drives home the point that everyone needs to at least lead themselves.  The more people apply concepts to themselves, then the more relevant the messages.  We all have a sphere of influence that we can impact in a positive way.  </p>
<p>But I know how many people tend to view power as a negative thing.</p>
<p>Your posts are thought provoking and I am trying to learn from your writing.  Thanks.  Jann</p>
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		<title>By: Henie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Henie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 19:47:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A true leader is someone who is deep in action, focused on the goal at hand, a *doer.*

The context imposed on leadership is the very thought of how, what, who...immediately skews and gives it the fear factor, as though a leader is one who sticks his neck out to be beheaded.

True leaders are too busy leading in action rather than configuratively in thought of what it ought to be.

Thanks always, Susan, for your insights! I do appreciate it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A true leader is someone who is deep in action, focused on the goal at hand, a *doer.*</p>
<p>The context imposed on leadership is the very thought of how, what, who&#8230;immediately skews and gives it the fear factor, as though a leader is one who sticks his neck out to be beheaded.</p>
<p>True leaders are too busy leading in action rather than configuratively in thought of what it ought to be.</p>
<p>Thanks always, Susan, for your insights! I do appreciate it!</p>
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